5/21/05: Character

There are three major clues that reveal a person’s character.

The first clue is in how they handle problems. When life throws them a challenge, do they moan and groan, complaining of why things always happen to them? Or do they simply accept the challenge and move forward to overcome it? Whether the problem is large or small, the way we deal with anything is the way we deal with everything. It takes strength of character to accept life’s challenges with open arms and integrate them into our lives.

The second clue is in how they treat others, especially ones who have hurt them. Do they treat everyone, no matter who it is, with courtesy, respect and compassion? Or do they belittle others, lie and lash out in anger? When we have been hurt by another, we are at our most vulnerable. In the throes of our pain, we want to lash out and hurt the other. It takes strength of character to step outside of our pain long enough to recognize we are dealing with another human being, one who may also be hurt.

The third clue is in how they live and work. Do they blame others for their inability to get ahead, justify less than efficient work habits with lack of appreciation and do just enough to get by? Or do they go the extra mile, claim full responsibility for their lot in life and constantly strive to better themselves, in the workplace and at home? It takes strength of character to hold oneself fully accountable and maintain consistent growth and expansion.

Where do you fit in?