3/30/05: Minding your own business,
mending your own lifeHow others choose to live their lives is none of your business.
When you constantly tell others what they should or shouldn't do, when you judge them for the choices they make, when you gossip about them, you are not only doing them a disservice as a human being free to create their own lives, you are also denying yourself that same freedom.
Controlling, judging and gossiping about others is a sure sign of avoidance - avoidance of our own feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness.
Mind your own business and start paying attention to your own life. When you can mend your own life, you can look at others with understanding, acceptance and love.
