1/9/07: Let Others Off The Hook

When you realize and accept that you are the only one responsible for your own happiness, you let others off the hook.

Your relationships become freer, more open, relaxed and light. They begin to flow naturally, without force, manipulation or control.

Without the onus of your happiness placed upon them, others are drawn to you. They instinctively become more comfortable and at ease in your presence and you will become more open and carefree around them, allowing for the mutual enjoyment of each other without conditions, demands and expectations.

If you want better relationships, realize and accept full responsibility for your own happiness. Let others off the hook and you'll find that you can create more happiness for yourself than everyone else possibly could combined.